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What would you want said about you at your funeral?

It sounds morbid, but it's incredibly powerful. The Funeral Exercise is a proven method to cut through the noise and discover what truly matters to you.

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What is the funeral exercise?

This AI-guided exercise walks you through imagining your own funeral. Not to be dark, but to be honest. Also known as the eulogy exercise, this powerful tool asks you to imagine what you'd want people to say about you at your funeral. When you strip away the daily noise and think about the end, the truth gets loud:

  • What would you want people to say about you?
  • What do you want your legacy to be?
  • What did you contribute to the world?
  • Who do you want to be remembered as?

The exercise forces you to think about your values, relationships, and purpose from a perspective that cuts through every excuse and distraction.


How it works

01

Imagine

The AI guides you through a visualization of your funeral. Who is there? What are they saying? What do you wish they'd say?

02

Reflect

Answer questions about the gap between the eulogy you'd want and the life you're currently living. This is where the clarity hits.

03

Distill

The AI helps you turn your reflections into clear insights about your priorities, values, and what needs to change.


What you get


Who it's for

People who are busy being busy but haven't stopped to ask why. Anyone who feels successful on paper but empty inside. Leaders who want to lead with legacy in mind. It's uncomfortable for about ten minutes, and clarifying for the rest of your life.


Frequently asked questions

What is the purpose of the funeral exercise?

The funeral exercise (also called the eulogy exercise) helps you gain clarity on what truly matters by imagining your own funeral. By envisioning what you'd want people to say about you, you uncover your deepest values and priorities.

What is the eulogy exercise?

The eulogy exercise asks you to write the speech you'd want someone to deliver at your funeral. It's the same concept as the funeral exercise — both use the power of imagining your legacy to reveal what matters most to you right now.

Is the funeral exercise morbid?

Not at all. Most people find it deeply clarifying and even uplifting. By confronting mortality in a safe, guided way, you gain perspective on how you want to live — not how you'll die.

How long does this exercise take?

About 15-20 minutes for the full guided experience. Our AI walks you through reflection prompts and helps you distill your insights into clear, actionable priorities.


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