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Articles and podcast episodes on self-leadership, values, and the Love Not Fear framework.


The Unschooling Mindset: I Am My Relationships with Jon Barnes
EP 54

The Unschooling Mindset: I Am My Relationships with Jon Barnes

with Jon Barnes, Coach, Facilitator & Co-founder

Jon Barnes on why shifting from "I am my relationships" to "I have them" unlocks autonomy — in teams, in parenting, and in self-managing cultures.

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Spiral Dynamics, Love, and Fear: Why the Level You're On Matters Less Than the Side You're On
Core Belief

Spiral Dynamics, Love, and Fear: Why the Level You're On Matters Less Than the Side You're On

Spiral Dynamics maps how human worldviews evolve. But at every level, from survival to global consciousness, you can live from love or from fear. The horizontal axis matters more than the vertical one.

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Hacking Organizations: What Moves and What Remains with Priel Korenfeld
EP 53

Hacking Organizations: What Moves and What Remains with Priel Korenfeld

with Priel Korenfeld, Organizational Hacker & Partner

Organizational hacker Priel Korenfeld explores how to make organizations more flexible and habitable for human beings — and why culture can't be designed directly but emerges from the micro-moments of how people actually work together.

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Toolkit

The Friday Reset: End Your Week from Love, Not Exhaustion

Most people end their week drained and already dreading Monday. The Friday Reset is a simple practice to close your week with gratitude and intention instead of running on fumes into the weekend.

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Core Value

You Are Not Your Worst Thought

Your inner critic is loud, but it's not you. It's fear doing what fear does — trying to keep you small and safe. Learning to separate yourself from your worst thoughts is one of the most powerful shifts you can make.

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Core Belief

Busyness Is Not a Badge of Honor

We wear busyness like armor — the fuller the calendar, the more important we must be. But most busyness is fear in disguise. Fear of sitting with yourself. Fear of finding out what actually matters.

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Personal Behaviour

Stop Waiting for Permission to Live Your Life

Most of us are waiting for someone to tell us it's okay — to start the business, have the conversation, make the change. That wait is fear disguised as patience. Love doesn't wait. It moves.

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Toolkit

7 Ways to See the LNF Self-Leadership Operating System

We've been exploring how to explain our self-leadership framework in ways that click for different people. Here are 7 analogies — tell us which one resonates with you.

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Personal Beliefs

The Courage to Say No: Why Boundaries Are an Act of Love

Saying no feels scary because we're afraid of rejection, conflict, or letting people down. But every time you say yes out of fear, you say no to something that actually matters. Real boundaries come from love, not selfishness.

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Unforgettable Offsites: Why Your Team Gatherings Are Failing (And How to Fix Them) with Tom Goulooze
EP 52

Unforgettable Offsites: Why Your Team Gatherings Are Failing (And How to Fix Them) with Tom Goulooze

with Tom Goulooze, Designer, Facilitator & Founder

Most company offsites fail because leaders design for themselves, not their teams. Tom Goulooze shares how listening-first facilitation transforms gatherings.

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4,000 Mondays: Stop Deferring Life and Start Living It with Dr. Jodi Wellman
EP 50

4,000 Mondays: Stop Deferring Life and Start Living It with Dr. Jodi Wellman

with Dr. Jodi Wellman

Dr. Jodi Wellman built an entire philosophy around one sobering truth: we each have roughly 4,000 Mondays in a lifetime. In this episode she joins Eduard to talk about mortality math, pre-grats, health span, and why befriending the grim reaper might be the most life-affirming thing you can do.

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When Values Get Real: Culture, Ego, and the Courage to Actually Mean It with Heather Stephens
EP 51

When Values Get Real: Culture, Ego, and the Courage to Actually Mean It with Heather Stephens

with Heather Stephens

What happens when company values are just propaganda? When "culture fit" becomes a weapon? Heather Stephens — organizational design and development specialist with three degrees in political science — joins Tine to unpack what culture actually is, why most values programs fail, and what it really...

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The Rise of the Intrapreneur: Why the Future of Work Depends on Aliveness
Team Behaviour

The Rise of the Intrapreneur: Why the Future of Work Depends on Aliveness

Intrapreneurship is the new frontier of innovation. It s where creativity, ownership, and purpose thrive inside organizations. Learn how to ignite change from w

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Fear-based marketing and sales tactics
Personal Beliefs

Fear-based marketing and sales tactics

A $10k-in-3-months webinar promised success but used fear-based tactics instead. Here’s what I learned about building trust, not pressure, in business.

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Authenticity as Art: How Simplicity and Presence Transform the World
Core Value

Authenticity as Art: How Simplicity and Presence Transform the World

Discover what true authenticity looks like in action. A grounded, intentional way of being where every choice flows naturally from your core values, without the

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The Hidden Side of Burnout: When Unclarity Drains Us
Core Value

The Hidden Side of Burnout: When Unclarity Drains Us

Discover what true authenticity looks like in action. A grounded, intentional way of being where every choice flows naturally from your core values, without the

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When Values Clash: The Quiet Battle Behind Leaving Organizations
Team Behaviour

When Values Clash: The Quiet Battle Behind Leaving Organizations

Recently, I listened to Jerry Greenfield’s resignation letter from Ben Jerry’s. His words resonated with me in a way that went far beyond ice cream or business.

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Personal Beliefs

The Achievement Trap: When Success Becomes Self-Defeating

The executive sat across from me, listing his accomplishments – prestigious degrees, rapid promotions, industry recognition. Yet his expression carried a weight

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The Owners, Renters, Guests, and Vandals Framework
Toolkit

The Owners, Renters, Guests, and Vandals Framework

Learn how the ORGV model reveals what drives your team and why it matters for long-term success and culture.

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Alignment, Trust, and Motivation in Systems
Toolkit

Alignment, Trust, and Motivation in Systems

The ATM method is a systemic framework for understanding how belief structures shape behavior — individually and organizationally.

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